There’s been a lot of talk about the new and how they may well be the ugliest BMWs ever. That might be true, but these arguments are all wrong. The problem isn’t the tall, vertical grilles, no matter how porky they may look.

It took a lot of time to come around to this for me. I had to sit with it. Let the BMWs snort over me. Them: piggies. Me: a little truffle in the forest waiting to be unearthed. After some days, they finally rooted me up! Light shone upon me, stinky, beautiful.

The headlights are the problem. Why are they so angry?

You see, if it was the grilles that were the problem, you could instantly make the M3 and M4 look good if you just made the grilles shaped like other current BMWs. Some have tried this.

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It doesn’t work in part because pretty much all modern BMWs have blandly bad faces. Squash down the new M3 or M4's grilles just makes it look like a little BMW 8 Series. The 8 Series is not an attractive car. It is big. It is powerful. It is nicely proportioned. Nothing about that stops it from looking like the grinch. Hell, if I were the 8 Series, I’d be disgruntled, too. .

When BMW canceled the 6 Series coupe, convertible, and Gran Coupe, and then sold a car just like…

The problem, at the heart of the M3 and M4, is just that the headlights themselves are glaring, glowering, mean-guy squinting. They look irate. They look indignant. They look pissed. Peeved. Petulant. They look like they have a bone to pick. They look like a non-player character in GTA whose car you just hit. They look like a happy person if, instead of being happy, was mad instead.

Why are these two BMWs so mad? What are they mad about! They have the world in front of them. They still come with straight sixes, they still come with rear-wheel drive, they still are practical in their design and not too huge, either.

I have argued before that and that the arguments people make about them are not new. I have argued that BMW doesn’t really change, not in the way that people always complain. It hasn’t lost its way.

BMW has been building the exact same car for 51 years and everyone seems surprised about it.

But I will. say that something has changed here. The cars have become more aggressive in their styling, and I can’t wait for that pendulum to swing back.